All I'm saying in my less than diplomatic way is that if one try is all you gave it via phone or email there is no fault to put on him. Sometimes when I call a number I get a busy signal or voicemail, that doesn't mean I don't have to try again, and again, and again. It's not his responsibility to get back with you. He has what you want, you aren't hurting anyone but yourself with an impatient attitude. By impatient I mean ONE call and ONE email. Then waiting for two months to hear back? That's never going to happen! ...after one full workday I personally would have gotten the hint that they weren't going to respond so I personally will try again.
I know the emails I get just overnight measure in the dozens, it's really easy to overlook some of them since I just scan the header before doing a mass delete. I've even found some from friends I regularly talk with that get thrown into the spam file for no apparent reason. The computer is not perfect, it's only as good as the moron that programmed it. Those morons are seriously smarter than I am, but they too make mistakes in coding. I can do some code myself, I know how mind-numbing it can be.
If you found what you needed elsewhere great!
For example - I'm thinking if you called a salvage yard one time and they didn't answer so you left a voice message and possibly followed that up with one email, and you knew they had the exact part you needed at a price that was the best around, but they didn't call you back, would you just call it a bust and go to the competition and buy a lesser part for more money? Or would you put in the effort to get the best for less?
I'm not saying this is the case here, it's just an example.
Randy,
You bring up an interesting, and valid, point. I suspect you get more emails than I. Or perhaps more of mine get sent to the trash by my spam filter? Occasionally, for example, I'll get an email from ebay that's worthwhile. But they send so much cr*p that I miss the worthwhile one, because all go directly to the trash folder courtesy of the spam filter.
As a general rule I don't like being a "pest", so I try not to be one. I realize an email's header can send it to the trash without being read, so I try and summarize in a few words, and hopefully get the person's attention. In the case of my email to Boomer the header was "Onan advise please". On the one hand that should have been sufficient, but just as you say, he could have mistakenly sent it to email purgatory. And that was the only email I sent.
I don't know about you, or anyone else, but I get so many obnoxious phone calls from telemarketers that quite often I won't answer the phone unless I recognize the number. That method sometimes results in missed calls that I wish I'd picked up. (Hopefully, the recent Supreme Court decision will put a dent in the harassment from telemarketers!)
As a result of all the robocalls, I find I use the telephone less and less. Emails and texts have become more frequent. One advantage (IMHO) of email is that you can respond when it's convenient, as opposed to answering a phone call when maybe it's not a good time. But that's MY opinion, and maybe Boomer, and others, feel differently.
My current Onan issues are solved, but in the future if I need help I'll reach out to Boomer and give him another shot.
Thanks, sincerely for the conversation.